Why, Yes, this is my real job. No, I don't have health insurance and perhaps I I don't want to get married right now.

If you are out there talking to someone younger than you and have asked them these questions, you aren't the first. "I will pray for God to send you a good husband" is not a sentence that should come out of your mouth. This is the most amazing time in your life, but how could it be the best when you don't have anything you really want out of life.