"Don't try to fix it. I just need you to listen." Every man has heard these words. And they are the law of the land. No matter what. Even when the solution is right in front of you. 

This is of course a dramatic representation of an actual problem.  Guys we have to listen.  Sometimes if we look past how to fix things, you might just learn something.  Like your women is crazy and you need to get out fast!  I mean, she has a nail in her head.